Children Are Like Butterflies In The Sky
Children are a flowery and varied garden where each, with its own characteristics, gives warmth and fragrance to the environment. It is bees that seek nectar or raindrops that revive the earth. Courageous and just as confident as only they know how to be.
And it is that children , as well as flowers, bees and raindrops are different from each other, but individually important, as are all the individuals of the conglomerate of species that populate this planet.
There are some who fly high, with their dreams, ideas and ways of living life. They reach unexpected peaks and stay there to leap forward and go higher and higher.
Before the incredulous eyes of their parents, they enjoy glories sometimes only achieved by adults and are recognized for their achievements, rewarded for their talent and achievements.
These little ones are monarch butterflies that colonize the sky with their unique presence.
There are other children who strive to reach heaven and put all their effort into touching the clouds. They consider themselves to have the strength and ability to do what “monarchs” achieve most easily, but their wings aren’t that big and bright. Their peak is always lower than that of their predecessors.
However, these children are as admired and loved as their peers. They shine for the simple fact of being children and deserve collective approval.
Children are like butterflies in the sky. They fly high or fly low, but they are here to remind us how different and great they are.
Teach your children the value of effort
The effort itself is worth it. Only in this way can great enterprises be achieved.
As a human condition, it must be valued and respected. Because it is the effort that pushes us to continue when we have little strength, to move forward and overcome difficulties.
Anyone who strives to achieve their goals should be applauded, because they are someone who truly deserves to be rewarded with achieving their goal.
However, effort is not always a sure card for victory. No matter how hard we try, on many occasions, we fail to achieve our goal.
But in such situations our fatigue does not lose its value. Even if it does not guarantee victory, it always serves to remind us what we are capable of doing, how much we are able to sacrifice ourselves and the positive spirit we have inside.
When we strive for our goals, even if we cannot make our dreams come true, there remains the satisfaction of having fought, of not having given up arms without having fought with courage.
We must therefore feel satisfied with ourselves and, in a sense, be happy.
If you teach this to your child, you will educate an enterprising and courageous child and young man.
Children are like butterflies in the sky
Teach your child to plunge with courage and love into each of his feats, even the simplest. Let him go without fear in search of alternatives and means that will allow him to carry out his projects. What you experience and never fear obstacles.
Now, if your little one, even if he is persevering, doesn’t achieve his goals, just for his efforts, he deserves to be praised and rewarded. It matters little if his successes fall short of his expectations.
You must know that the world is diverse, and not everyone can achieve the same victories. With this in mind, it is recommended to avoid comparisons with peers. The comparison damages self-esteem, it will awaken jealousy, envy and the inferiority complex.
Instead, teach him to feel at peace with himself, to respect himself and be respected for his achievements, to admire other children and to feel happy for them.
Also show him how happy he should be with everything he has achieved versus what he has failed to achieve. Being happy with himself, we assure you, will make him happy.
Not always successful children, competitive children are the happiest. If your baby is a little butterfly of spring, small and not so colorful, love him as he is, because he is your son.
